What Is Mediation?

A process where a neutral third party helps divorcing spouses reach an agreement.

Divorce mediation is a process in which a neutral third-party mediator helps both spouses negotiate the terms of their divorce — including property division, alimony, child support, and custody arrangements. Unlike litigation, where a judge makes the final decisions, mediation allows the couple to maintain control over the outcome. The mediator does not take sides or make binding decisions; instead, they facilitate communication and help both parties find mutually acceptable solutions. Mediation is generally less expensive and faster than a contested court proceeding. It can cost a few thousand dollars total compared to tens of thousands in litigation. Some states require mediation before allowing a case to go to trial. Even when not required, mediation often produces better outcomes because both parties have a voice in the agreement.

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